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Friday 27 September 2013

5. Backdoor entry, anyone?

On Saturday nite when Jia was with her boyfriend, he expressed his desire to try anal sex with her. She wasn't sure how to react cause she didn't want it and it disappointed her that the guy was so awesome in every way and this would rock their relationship. When she met her friends on Sunday, she asked them how they handle it and After talking to them, felt She just had to write about it. Most men it seemed, did fantasize about it, thanks to porn movies and the likes, the fact that the man would feel more tightness and thrust and the general taboo surrounding it. It just feels like a "why not try this too" thing, and the porn shows portray it as very pleasurable and easy without the use of any lubricants and condoms. Butt sex can cause a lot of infections to both partners and should be done with a condom and a lot of silicon based lubrication, Not to mention that it must be done with complete consent since the muscles need to be relaxed, otherwise it can loosen the anal sphincter and can tear the anal mucosa making it easier to transmit STDs. Though a lot of Indian men fantasize about it, few get around to expressing the desire to their partners, sometimes thus resulting in extra marital affairs. Of those who do let their partners know in some way, not all get a positive response. Of the couples who finally decide to get with the program, maybe because the girl just wants to please her man as very few Indian girls actually want to do it, few couples really succeed. And so even though Jia dreaded the conversation, she knew what she had to do and she broke up with Karan even though she was beginning to fall in love with him, lest the back door sex become a reason for infidelity in the relationship.



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